Bonobo Network is a community rooted in real-world and virtual events where people learn together – and from one another – about sexuality, pleasure, and relationships.
As a Bonobo Member, you’ll have access to…
Community
We bring together excellent people with sex-positive values who are committed to treating one another excellently: kindly, empathetically, consensually, inclusively, pleasurably, and supportively. We expect this whether we interact online in our community platform or in-person at a party or retreat.
Coaching
William Winters and Misha Bonaventura offer personal coaching on sex and pleasure, relationships and connection, accountability and repair, inner work for outer enjoyment, reimagining relationships and normative patterns, navigating sex positive community, and more.
Learning
Bonobo members are voracious learners about sexuality, pleasure, relationships, emotions, communication, and the world. You’ll have first access to classes, workshops, lectures, discussion forums, and interviews.
Events
We create frequent in-person experiences in and around the San Francisco Bay Area: parties, retreats, picnics, potlucks, workshops, forums, and more (vaccinations required for our private events.) Bonobo also creates regular online events aimed at keeping members connected regardless of geography, because everyone deserves excellent community.
What People Are Saying
“Bonobo has become a major component of my social circle. It provides a space, both virtual and physical, for me to be as authentic as I have ever been while in community. It aligns very well with my needs for flirting, sexual expression, partying and ongoing connection.”
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“I love this community. Bonobos have become my friends and lovers. I just love meeting such wonderful, conscious, grounded, intelligent, funny, sex-positive people. I love that Bonobo Network really is a community with continuity and connection between events. I’m honored to be part of it.”
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“Bonobo is becoming more important to me all the time. I value the kindness, openness, shared values, trustworthiness and support I find in this community a great deal. I've become a better communicator, my self confidence has improved, I have learned to take better care of myself, listen to myself, and ask for what I want and need.”