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SAVE THE DATE: Queergasm💦 Theme TBA

Saturday, October 11, 2025 7:00 PM
Sunday, October 12, 2025 2:00 AM

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SAVE THE DATE: Queergasm💦 Theme TBA

🗓️ Date: Saturday, October 11th 2025 7pm-2am

📍 Location: Mission Control - address will be released to ticket holders

SAVE THE DATE! TICKET LAUNCH THURSDAY September 4th at 7pm

What is Queergasm?

Queergasm is our ongoing party for queer folks. It's only open to queer people. That's because we want to create a space where queerness is not just welcomed or tolerated, but centered and celebrated.

For our purposes, if you identify as queer, this party is for you. No one will be checking your queer card. You are queer enough. If you are questioning or exploring if you might be queer or fall somewhere under the LGBTQ+ umbrella, you are welcome to attend Queergasm as you explore if you might identify as queer.

This party is for people with all levels of experience, from the merely curious or questioning to the most experienced swingers; from the decidedly monogamous to the most committed polyamorists. Under the umbrella of queerness, we welcome people representing every sexual preference, gender expression, and body type. None of us are getting free until we all get free.

Queergasm is Now Using the PAL System!

We’re excited to announce that Queergasm will now be using the PAL system, which will allow more queer folks to get a taste of our community.

PAL stands for Pervy Activity Liaison (thanks to Polly Superstar of Kinky Salon and Mission Control for the term.) A PAL is a trusted friend (doesn’t have to be a date) who attends an event with you. PALs are responsible for each others’ behavior – if someone behaves in a way that negatively impacts the space, it reflects poorly on all of the PALs. And if we ask someone to leave an event for any reason, their PALs must exit as well. In this way, it not only ensures that people who are new to the community have a social anchor, it also ensures that everyone feels accountable to someone, which tends to encourage great behavior.

Who Needs a PAL for Queergasm?

Active Bonobo members do NOT need a PAL. You’re welcome to attend solo if you would like.
Non-members MUST have a PAL to attend – even if you were previously a member.
Two non-members CAN be each other’s PALs as long as they know and trust each other.

PAL Guidelines:

Arrive & leave with a trusted friend (not necessarily a date).
Your PAL can be of any gender, a couple, or a group—as long as you all agree to be responsible for each other.
You are responsible for your PAL’s behavior, and they are responsible for yours.
You must know and trust your PAL—you cannot PAL with a stranger.
If either of you violate consent or event agreements, both of you will be held accountable.