Queergasm Meetup
Tuesday December 2nd, 2025 7pm-10pm
Join us for Queergasm’s social meetup! It is a fantastic way for our queer non-monogamous community to get to know each other with our clothes on and in a low-pressure environment.
The next Queergasm is Saturday, March 8th 2025!
What is Queergasm?
Queergasm is a play party produced by the Bonobo Network, by queers, for queers, and exclusively for queer people. Our mission is to create a space where queerness is not just welcomed or tolerated, but centered and celebrated.
About this Meetup
This meetup is for all queer folks: those who are planning on attending an upcoming Queergasm party, those who are curious and considering attending, and for newbies just to meet our community.
First time? Want to know what Queergasm and Bonobo Network is? Come on out, take a name tag, write out your pronouns, bring some drinks or food to share, and get to know your community even better. Feeling shy? Don’t be afraid of these people, they are naughty in the nicest ways… Grab one of the hosts and we'll help you feel welcomed.
This event is only for queer people. For our purposes, if you identify as queer, this meetup is for you. No one will be checking your queer card. You are queer enough. If you are questioning or exploring if you might be queer or fall somewhere under the LGBTQ+ umbrella, you are welcome.
Location:
We will be meeting at District Oakland. Full bar with gourmet small plates served in a modern space.
District Oakland
827 Washington St,
Oakland, CA 94607
Can't wait to see all your lovely faces!
Invite your Friend!
Want to bring a non-Bonobo friend? Great! Meetup is open to non-Bonobos. Please remember, though, that we're looking for people who'll be GREAT fits with our culture: we are looking for excellent people with sex-positive values who are committed to treating one another excellently: kindly, empathetically, consensually, inclusively, pleasurably, and supportively! They want to do sexy parties in community instead of in anonymity. They see the appeal in treating play parties as high possibility, low expectation spaces. They value consent. They're trustworthy. They are both supportive and supportable. Do you know these people? Because they're whom we want to see at the event.
COVID safety: Please discuss your risk factors with each other as it pertains to covid. Physical contact and close proximity with explicit consent.
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